* Don't terminate Dart process pids from VM Service

These processes may be on another device, and in the case of attach the debugee should not be terminated anyway.

Previously, https://github.com/flutter/flutter/pull/100271 enabled
building universal macOS binaries by default, but included a bug causing
the arm64 App.framework to be built such that the TEXT section
containing the app instructions built by gen_snapshot incorrectly
contained x86_64 instructions rather than arm64 instructions.

When building macOS (and iOS) apps, Flutter builds them in three
components:
* The Runner application: built by Xcode
* The bundled App.framework: built from assembly code generated by
  gen_snapshot from the application's Dart sources.
* The bundled FlutterMacOS.framework: built as part of the engine build
  and packaged by copying the distributed binary framework from our
  artifacts cache.

Building App.framework consists of the following steps:
* For each architecture, invoke gen_snapshot to generate
  architecture-specific assembly code, which is then built to object
  code and linked into an architecture-specific App.framework.
* Use the `lipo` tool to generate a universal binary that includes both
  x86_64 and arm64 architectures.

Previously, we were building architecture specific App.framework
binaries. However, for all architectures we were (mistakenly) invoking
the general `gen_snapshot` tool (which emitted x64 instructions, and
which is now deprecated) instead of the architecture-specific
`gen_snapshot_x86` and `gen_snapshot_arm64` builds which emit
instructions for the correct architecture.

This change introduces a small refactoring, which is to split the
`getNameForDarwinArch` function into two functions:
* `getDartNameForDarwinArch`: the name for the specified architecture as
  used in the Dart SDK, for example as the suffix of `gen_snapshot`.
* `getNameForDarwinArch`: the name for the specified architecture
  as used in Apple tools, for example as an argument to `lipo`. For
  consistency, and to match developer expectations on Darwin platforms,
  this is also the name used in Flutter's build outputs.

Issue: https://github.com/flutter/flutter/issues/100348

Fixes #86590

This changes the default build architectures for Flutter macOS apps to
x86_64 and arm64. Previously, we manually excluded arm64 builds via the
EXCLUDE_ARCHS Xcode setting in Flutter's generated xcconfig file. This
eliminates setting EXCLUDE_ARCHS during the build and updates the
default architectures in the tool and in the macos_assemble.sh wrapper.

Issue: https://github.com/flutter/flutter/issues/97681
Umbrella issue: https://github.com/flutter/flutter/issues/60113

This fixes a race condition in test/integration.shard/cache_test.dart which allowed the test to fail if the machine took a very long time to acquire a lock or launch a process.

* Starts using the `--source` flag to compile the dart registrant.

* updated general.shard tests

* Fixed the resident compiler flow

* added integration test

* made the integration test self contained

* renamed generated_main to dart_plugin_registrant

* cleaned up for review

* added task runner for ci

* added bringup and TESTOWNERS

* updated failure message

* Fixed order dependency and removed no-shuffle-tag in build_ios_framework_test.dart

* Removed trailing spaces in build_ios_framework_test.dart

* Removed unnecessary formatting