Update device selection to wait for wireless devices to load

Separate attached and wireless devices

Update device filtering and introduce isConnected and connectionInterface

Also allow daemon commands to pass binary streams

* opt out the flutter tool

* oops EOF

* fix import

* Update tool_backend.dart

* Update daemon_client.dart

* fix more

* Add punctuation for unterminated sentences in doc comments

* Addressing review nit

instead of restricting profile/release mode based on whether the tool thinks the device is an emulator, restrict based on the device target architecture and the requested build mode. Notably, this enables release mode on x86_64 Android emulators, but not x86 emulators since we do not support that as an AOT target.

This does not add release mode support for simulators, since this requires us to build and upload artifacts for simulator/x86_64