refactor the widget rebuild service protocol event format

https://ci.chromium.org/ui/p/flutter/builders/prod/Windows%20web_tool_tests/2880/overview

* Upgrade all packages

In particular, bring in dwds with latest fixes for flakes.

Closes: https://github.com/flutter/flutter/issues/85043
Related: https://github.com/flutter/flutter/issues/85575

* Re-enable fixed tests

* Disable failing test due to DDS issue

Revert "Reland: Make LiveTestWidgetsFlutterBinding work with setSurfaceSize and live tests (#86739)" (#86823)

This reverts commit cf3d9409.

This change fixes the driver tests "VMServiceFlutterDriver with logCommunicationToFile logCommunicationToFile logCommunicationToFile = false" and "WebFlutterDriver with logCommunicationToFile logCommunicationToFile = false" so that they will no longer fail when run locally.

The issue was one of not cleaning up the log files after the test ran, so a later run with the same name would see it. Presumably on the servers the tests are run in a different environment where the names or locations of the output files end up being different.

This PR fixes several bugs related to live tests, adds more tests, and completes the documentation of several methods related to pointer events.