refactor the widget rebuild service protocol event format

https://ci.chromium.org/ui/p/flutter/builders/prod/Windows%20web_tool_tests/2880/overview

* Upgrade all packages

In particular, bring in dwds with latest fixes for flakes.

Closes: https://github.com/flutter/flutter/issues/85043
Related: https://github.com/flutter/flutter/issues/85575

* Re-enable fixed tests

* Disable failing test due to DDS issue

Revert "Reland: Make LiveTestWidgetsFlutterBinding work with setSurfaceSize and live tests (#86739)" (#86823)

This reverts commit cf3d9409.

This change fixes the driver tests "VMServiceFlutterDriver with logCommunicationToFile logCommunicationToFile logCommunicationToFile = false" and "WebFlutterDriver with logCommunicationToFile logCommunicationToFile = false" so that they will no longer fail when run locally.

The issue was one of not cleaning up the log files after the test ran, so a later run with the same name would see it. Presumably on the servers the tests are run in a different environment where the names or locations of the output files end up being different.