Adds an `enabled` property to `ExpansionTile` that allows the user to disable the internal `ListTile`, so that we can prevent user interaction.

Fixes #135770.

fixes [Expose animation parameters for the [ExpansionTile] widget](https://github.com/flutter/flutter/issues/138047)

### Description
Add `AnimationStyle` to the `ExpansionTile` widget to override the default expand and close animation.

Syntax:
```dart
        child: ExpansionTile(
          title: const Text('Tap to expand'),
          expansionAnimationStyle: AnimationStyle(
            duration: Durations.extralong1,
            curve: Easing.emphasizedAccelerate,
          ),
          children: const <Widget>[FlutterLogo(size: 200)],
        ),
```

### Code sample

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```dart
// Copyright 2014 The Flutter Authors. All rights reserved.
// Use of this source code is governed by a BSD-style license that can be
// found in the LICENSE file.

import 'package:flutter/material.dart';

/// Flutter code sample for [ExpansionTile] and [AnimationStyle].

void main() {
  runApp(const ExpansionTileAnimationStyleApp());
}

enum AnimationStyles { defaultStyle, custom, none }
const List<(AnimationStyles, String)> animationStyleSegments = <(AnimationStyles, String)>[
  (AnimationStyles.defaultStyle, 'Default'),
  (AnimationStyles.custom, 'Custom'),
  (AnimationStyles.none, 'None'),
];

class ExpansionTileAnimationStyleApp extends StatefulWidget {
  const ExpansionTileAnimationStyleApp({super.key});

  @override
  State<ExpansionTileAnimationStyleApp> createState() => _ExpansionTileAnimationStyleAppState();
}

class _ExpansionTileAnimationStyleAppState extends State<ExpansionTileAnimationStyleApp> {
  Set<AnimationStyles> _animationStyleSelection = <AnimationStyles>{AnimationStyles.defaultStyle};
  AnimationStyle? _animationStyle;

  @override
  Widget build(BuildContext context) {
    return MaterialApp(
      home: Scaffold(
        body: SafeArea(
          child: Column(
            mainAxisAlignment: MainAxisAlignment.center,
            children: <Widget>[
              SegmentedButton<AnimationStyles>(
                selected: _animationStyleSelection,
                onSelectionChanged: (Set<AnimationStyles> styles) {
                  setState(() {
                    _animationStyleSelection = styles;
                    switch (styles.first) {
                      case AnimationStyles.defaultStyle:
                        _animationStyle = null;
                      case AnimationStyles.custom:
                        _animationStyle = AnimationStyle(
                          curve: Easing.emphasizedAccelerate,
                          duration: Durations.extralong1,
                        );
                      case AnimationStyles.none:
                        _animationStyle = AnimationStyle.noAnimation;
                    }
                  });
                },
                segments: animationStyleSegments
                  .map<ButtonSegment<AnimationStyles>>(((AnimationStyles, String) shirt) {
                    return ButtonSegment<AnimationStyles>(value: shirt.$1, label: Text(shirt.$2));
                  })
                  .toList(),
              ),
              const SizedBox(height: 20),
              ExpansionTile(
                expansionAnimationStyle: _animationStyle,
                title: const Text('ExpansionTile'),
                children: const <Widget>[
                  ListTile(title: Text('Expanded Item 1')),
                  ListTile(title: Text('Expanded Item 2')),
                ],
              )
            ],
          ),
        ),
      ),
    );
  }
}
```

</details>

Related to https://github.com/flutter/flutter/pull/138721.

This PR will add new parameters to `ExpansionTile` widget to manage `dense`, `visualDensity` and `enableFeedback` of the main ListTile.

Solves #137530 

It is not a breaking change.

fixes [`ExpansionTile` properties aren't updated with `setState`](https://github.com/flutter/flutter/issues/24493)

### Code sample

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```dart
import 'package:flutter/material.dart';

void main() => runApp(const MyApp());

class MyApp extends StatelessWidget {
  const MyApp({super.key});

  @override
  Widget build(BuildContext context) {
    return const MaterialApp(
      debugShowCheckedModeBanner: false,
      home: Example(),
    );
  }
}

class Example extends StatefulWidget {
  const Example({super.key});

  @override
  State<Example> createState() => _ExampleState();
}

class _ExampleState extends State<Example> {
  ShapeBorder collapsedShape = const RoundedRectangleBorder(
    borderRadius: BorderRadius.all(Radius.circular(4)),
  );
  Color collapsedTextColor = const Color(0xffffffff);
  Color collapsedBackgroundColor = const Color(0xffff0000);
  Color collapsedIconColor = const Color(0xffffffff);
  ShapeBorder shape = const RoundedRectangleBorder(
    borderRadius: BorderRadius.all(Radius.circular(16)),
  );
  Color backgroundColor = const Color(0xffff0000);
  Color textColor = const Color(0xffffffff);
  Color iconColor = const Color(0xffffffff);

  @override
  Widget build(BuildContext context) {
    return Scaffold(
      body: Center(
        child: Padding(
          padding: const EdgeInsets.symmetric(horizontal: 16.0),
          child: Column(
            mainAxisAlignment: MainAxisAlignment.center,
            children: [
              ExpansionTile(
                shape: shape,
                backgroundColor: backgroundColor,
                textColor: textColor,
                iconColor: iconColor,
                collapsedShape: collapsedShape,
                collapsedTextColor: collapsedTextColor,
                collapsedBackgroundColor: collapsedBackgroundColor,
                collapsedIconColor: collapsedIconColor,
                title: const Text('Collapsed ExpansionTile'),
                children: const [
                  ListTile(
                    title: Text('Revealed!'),
                  ),
                ],
              ),
              const SizedBox(height: 16),
              ExpansionTile(
                shape: shape,
                backgroundColor: backgroundColor,
                textColor: textColor,
                iconColor: iconColor,
                initiallyExpanded: true,
                title: const Text('Expanded ExpansionTile'),
                children: const [
                  ListTile(
                    title: Text('Revealed!'),
                  ),
                ],
              ),
              const SizedBox(height: 16),
              FilledButton(
                onPressed: () {
                  setState(() {
                    collapsedShape = const RoundedRectangleBorder(
                      borderRadius: BorderRadius.all(Radius.circular(50)),
                    );
                    collapsedTextColor = const Color(0xfff00000);
                    collapsedBackgroundColor = const Color(0xffffff00);
                    collapsedIconColor = const Color(0xfff00000);

                    shape = const RoundedRectangleBorder();
                    backgroundColor = const Color(0xfffff000);
                    textColor = const Color(0xfff00000);
                    iconColor = const Color(0xfff00000);
                  });
                },
                child: const Text('Update properties'),
              ),
            ],
          ),
        ),
      ),
    );
  }
}
```

</details> 

### Before

https://github.com/flutter/flutter/assets/48603081/b29aed98-38ff-40a3-9ed3-c4342ada35b6

### After

https://github.com/flutter/flutter/assets/48603081/5e0b6a34-c577-40ed-8456-7ef55caa277b

Updates most of the unit tests in the packages/flutter/test/material folder so that they'll pass if ThemeData.useMaterial3 defaults to true.

All of the tests have wired useMaterial3 to false and will need to be updated with a M3 version.

related to #127064

fixes https://github.com/flutter/flutter/issues/127795

ExpansionTile audit

Added ExpansionTileController

Remove prefer_const_constructors ignores

Bump lower Dart SDK constraints to 3.0 & add class modifiers

This reverts commit fd65fd1b.

Fix `ExpansionTile` double tap to collapse/expanded and expanded/collapsed states semantics announcements

This reverts commit e8eac0d0.

* Make Flex,Row,Column const for real

* dart fix --apply

* fix snippets

* fix integration test

* add comment

This reverts commit 5fd259be.