This PR fixes issue of duplicate entries from `xcdevice list` cause devices to not show in `flutter devices`, `flutter run`, etc.

When a duplicate entry is found, use the entry without errors as the authority. If both have errors, use the one with the higher SDK as the authority.

Fixes https://github.com/flutter/flutter/issues/128719.

Show warning when attempting to flutter run on an ios device with developer mode turned off (#125710)

This PR adds a warning when a user attempt to `flutter run -d <device id>` on a device without developer mode enabled.
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Also handles multiple partial matches.
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Fixes https://github.com/flutter/flutter/issues/111988

Better support for wireless devices in IDEs

Update device selection to wait for wireless devices to load

Separate attached and wireless devices

This reverts commit 00658736.

This reverts commit 5fd259be.

* opt out the flutter tool

* oops EOF

* fix import

* Update tool_backend.dart

* Update daemon_client.dart

* fix more

The flutter run failures are cause by the application occasionally taking a long time to start up. This caused the ios fallback discovery to kick in, which will always fail if the application hasn't started. Solution: remove the iOS fallback discovery and wait up to 30 seconds.

This has not proven to reduce the flakes, but it does at least remove one error case and removes code that will no longer work without the mDNS fallback.

Flutter logs should not attempt to filter the device list based on the current project, because it does not require a current project. Also fix disabled polling test

Fixes #47996
Fixes #63550

instead of restricting profile/release mode based on whether the tool thinks the device is an emulator, restrict based on the device target architecture and the requested build mode. Notably, this enables release mode on x86_64 Android emulators, but not x86 emulators since we do not support that as an AOT target.

This does not add release mode support for simulators, since this requires us to build and upload artifacts for simulator/x86_64