Previously, RenderObjectElements didn't support being marked dirty. This
is fine, except for MixedViewport and HomogeneousViewport, which have
builder functions to which they hand themselves as a BuildContext. If
those builder functions call, e.g., Theme.of(), then when the theme
changes, the Inherited logic tries to tell the RenderObjectElement
object that its dependencies changed and that doesn't go down well.

This patch fixes this by making RenderObjectElement a BuildableElement,
and making MixedViewport and HomogeneousViewport hook into that to
rebuild themselves appropriately.

Also, this was only found at all because ThemeData didn't implement
operator==, so we were aggressively marking the entire tree dirty all
the time. That's fixed here too.

Also, I changed card_collection.dart to have more features to make this
easier to test. This found bugs #1524, #1522, #1528, #1529, #1530, #1531.