fix https://github.com/flutter/flutter/issues/117722

### Description
1. Fix the divider doesn't stretch to take all the available width in the scrollable tab bar in M3
2. Add `dividerHeight` property.
3. Update the default tab alignment for the scrollable tab bar to match the specs (this is backward compatible for M2 with the new `tabAlignment` property).

### Bug (default tab alignment)

![Screenshot 2023-05-05 at 19 04 40](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/48603081/236509483-1d03af21-a764-4776-acef-2126560f0d51.png)

### Fix (default tab alignment)

![Screenshot 2023-05-05 at 19 04 15](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/48603081/236509513-2426d456-c54f-42bd-9545-a14dc6ee7e69.png)

### Code sample

<details> 
<summary>code sample</summary> 

```dart
import 'package:flutter/material.dart';

/// Flutter code sample for [TabBar].

void main() => runApp(const TabBarApp());

class TabBarApp extends StatelessWidget {
  const TabBarApp({super.key});

  @override
  Widget build(BuildContext context) {
    return MaterialApp(
      theme: ThemeData(
        //  tabBarTheme: const TabBarTheme(tabAlignment: TabAlignment.start),
          useMaterial3: true,
      ),
      home: const TabBarExample(),
    );
  }
}

class TabBarExample extends StatefulWidget {
  const TabBarExample({super.key});

  @override
  State<TabBarExample> createState() => _TabBarExampleState();
}

class _TabBarExampleState extends State<TabBarExample> {
  bool rtl = false;

  @override
  Widget build(BuildContext context) {
    return DefaultTabController(
      initialIndex: 1,
      length: 3,
      child: Directionality(
        textDirection:  rtl ? TextDirection.rtl : TextDirection.ltr,
        child: Scaffold(
          appBar: AppBar(
            title: const Text('TabBar Sample'),
          ),
          body: const Column(
            children: <Widget>[
              Text('Scrollable-TabAlignment.start'),
              TabBar(
                isScrollable: true,
                tabAlignment: TabAlignment.start,
                tabs: <Widget>[
                  Tab(
                    icon: Icon(Icons.cloud_outlined),
                  ),
                  Tab(
                    icon: Icon(Icons.beach_access_sharp),
                  ),
                  Tab(
                    icon: Icon(Icons.brightness_5_sharp),
                  ),
                ],
              ),
              Text('Scrollable-TabAlignment.startOffset'),
              TabBar(
                isScrollable: true,
                tabAlignment: TabAlignment.startOffset,
                tabs: <Widget>[
                  Tab(
                    icon: Icon(Icons.cloud_outlined),
                  ),
                  Tab(
                    icon: Icon(Icons.beach_access_sharp),
                  ),
                  Tab(
                    icon: Icon(Icons.brightness_5_sharp),
                  ),
                ],
              ),
              Text('Scrollable-TabAlignment.center'),
              TabBar(
                isScrollable: true,
                tabAlignment: TabAlignment.center,
                tabs: <Widget>[
                  Tab(
                    icon: Icon(Icons.cloud_outlined),
                  ),
                  Tab(
                    icon: Icon(Icons.beach_access_sharp),
                  ),
                  Tab(
                    icon: Icon(Icons.brightness_5_sharp),
                  ),
                ],
              ),
              Spacer(),
              Text('Non-scrollable-TabAlignment.fill'),
              TabBar(
                tabAlignment: TabAlignment.fill,
                tabs: <Widget>[
                  Tab(
                    icon: Icon(Icons.cloud_outlined),
                  ),
                  Tab(
                    icon: Icon(Icons.beach_access_sharp),
                  ),
                  Tab(
                    icon: Icon(Icons.brightness_5_sharp),
                  ),
                ],
              ),
              Text('Non-scrollable-TabAlignment.center'),
              TabBar(
                tabAlignment: TabAlignment.center,
                tabs: <Widget>[
                  Tab(
                    icon: Icon(Icons.cloud_outlined),
                  ),
                  Tab(
                    icon: Icon(Icons.beach_access_sharp),
                  ),
                  Tab(
                    icon: Icon(Icons.brightness_5_sharp),
                  ),
                ],
              ),
              Spacer(),
            ],
          ),
          floatingActionButton: FloatingActionButton.extended(
            onPressed: () {
              setState(() {
                rtl = !rtl;
              });
            },
            label: const Text('Switch Direction'),
            icon: const Icon(Icons.swap_horiz),
          ),
        ),
      ),
    );
  }
}
``` 
	
</details>

![Screenshot 2023-06-06 at 18 06 12](https://github.com/flutter/flutter/assets/48603081/5ee5386d-cc64-4025-a020-ed2222cb6031)