related https://github.com/flutter/flutter/issues/128709

engine PR: https://github.com/flutter/engine/pull/43279

The web engine requires a way to unfocus textfield, It comes to nature
to me that we should leverage didGain/didLose a11y focus action. I also
unifies the action handler of all desktop platforms

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