I recently added some code to keep hover events from being propagated when a mouse wasn't attached. While that works, there are times when it can fire callbacks during the building of other components, since they can now be called from detach/attach. This is not ideal, since it will assert then. This changes the code so that it won't update the annotations during attach/detach, but also won't push the annotation layer unless a mouse is connected, achieving the same result as before, but with better semantics.

The basic problem is that in the detach for RenderPointerListener, it would detach the annotation, which could cause onExit to be called on the annotation, since the widget was disappearing under the mouse, and thus needs to receive an onExit, but that onExit might be (and probably will be) calling setState, which marks the owning widget as needing to be built, sometimes when it already has been.

The fix creates a new _ListenerElement that overrides activate and deactivate in order to tell the render object ahead of the detach that it might be detached, and so the onExit gets called before the detach instead of during it.

In addition, I now avoid scheduling more than one check for mouse positions per frame.