Stop wrapping adb, gradle and ios logger output, and update terminal wrapping column dynamically. (#23592)

Subcommand output (gradle, adb, etc) is no longer wrapped, and wrapping notices when the terminal column width changes dynamically now.

Fixes #23267.
Fixes #23266.

* Upgrade everything except matcher.
* Roll matcher (and test)
* Adjust tests that depend on flutter:test directly to depend on a shim
* Require use of package:test shim and remove other references to package:test

Some file I/O is piped from OS processes and never completes,
so without havign a timeout on the recording serialzation, we
end up waiting forever on that I/O to complete.

This adds support for a `--bug-report` flag, which is a recording
that:
  - includes the arguments that were passed to the command runner
  - is zipped up for easy attachment in Guthub issues