Move tools tests into a general.shard directory in preparation to changing how we shard tools tests (#36108)

* enable lint unnecessary_new

* fix tests

* fix tests

* fix tests

All temporary directory start with `flutter_` and have their random component separated from the name by a period, as in `flutter_test_bundle.YFYQMY`.

I've tried to find some of the places where we didn't cleanly delete temporary directories, too. This greatly reduces, though it does not entirely eliminate, the directories we leave behind when running tests, especially `flutter_tools` tests.

While I was at it I standardized on `tempDir` as the variable name for temporary directories, since it was the most common, removing occurrences of `temp` and `tmp`, among others.

Also I factored out some common code that used to catch exceptions that happen on Windows, and made more places use that pattern.

* Upgrade everything except matcher.
* Roll matcher (and test)
* Adjust tests that depend on flutter:test directly to depend on a shim
* Require use of package:test shim and remove other references to package:test

This ensures that accidental usages of dart:io's
file API don't creep in over time.

This removes direct file access from within flutter_tools
in favor of using `package:file` via a `FileSystem` that's
accessed via the `ApplicationContext`.

This lays the groundwork for us to be able to easily swap
out the underlying file system when running Flutter tools,
which will be used to provide a record/replay file system,
analogous to what we have for process invocations.

With this change, they're run via instance methods on an object
obtained through the context. This will allow us to substitute
that object in tests with replay/record versions to allow us to
mock out the os-layer in tests.

And fix a zillion omissions this uncovered.

rename to printTrace(), printStatus(), and printError()

1) Moved basic utility code into base/ directory to make it clear which code
   doesn't depend on Flutter-specific knowldge.
2) Move the CommandRunner subclasses into a runner/ directory because these
   aren't commands themselves.

Fixes #311