The "leaf merge" feature was getting confused when we reset the
SemanticsNode. We now separately track whether the node itself is marked
as being merged vs whether we inherited that state, and we don't reset
the inherited state until you're reattached or reserialised. In the
latter case, we do a "just in time" clearing of the flag just like we
previously did a "just in time" setting of the flag, except now the flag
we're setting or clearing is the inherited flag not the actual flag.