This change adds a top-level getBuildDirectory func and funcs for
android, aot, asset, ios build products.

Developers may now add a "build-dir" mapping to their
~/.flutter_settings (JSON format) config file. Output directory is
relative to the main flutter application directory.

This change also changes the default build directory for iOS builds to a
subdirectory of the configured build directory, 'build/ios' by default.