This implements the `DartDependencySetBuilder` completely in Dart instead of calling out to `sky_snapshot` (Linux/Mac) or `gen_snapshot` (Windows) and allows us to use the same code path on all supported host platforms.

It also slightly reduces hot reload times on Linux from ~750ms to ~690ms for the unchanged flutter_gallery app and significantly reduces hot reload times on Windows from almost 1.5s to just slightly slower than on Linux.

This change will also allow us to retire `sky_snapshot` completely in the future.