fixes [`FilterChip` should have `DeletableChipAttributes`/`trailing` to match Material 3 spec.](https://github.com/flutter/flutter/issues/135595)

### Code sample

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```dart
import 'package:flutter/material.dart';

void main() => runApp(const MyApp());

class MyApp extends StatelessWidget {
  const MyApp({super.key});

  @override
  Widget build(BuildContext context) {
    return  MaterialApp(
      debugShowCheckedModeBanner: false,
      theme: ThemeData(useMaterial3: true),
      home: const Example(),
    );
  }
}

class Example extends StatelessWidget {
  const Example({super.key});

  @override
  Widget build(BuildContext context) {
    return Scaffold(
      body: Center(
        child: Column(
          mainAxisAlignment: MainAxisAlignment.center,
          children: <Widget>[
            const Text('FilterChip'),
            const SizedBox(height: 8),
            FilterChip(
              avatar: const Icon(Icons.favorite_rounded),
              label: const Text('FilterChip'),
              selected: true,
              showCheckmark: false,
              onSelected: (bool value) {},
              onDeleted: () {},
              deleteButtonTooltipMessage: 'Delete Me!',
            ),
            const SizedBox(height: 16),
            FilterChip(
              avatar: const Icon(Icons.favorite_rounded),
              label: const Text('FilterChip'),
              onSelected: (bool value) {},
              onDeleted: () {},
            ),
            const SizedBox(height: 48),
            const Text('FilterChip.elevated'),
            const SizedBox(height: 8),
            FilterChip.elevated(
              avatar: const Icon(Icons.favorite_rounded),
              label: const Text('FilterChip'),
              selected: true,
              showCheckmark: false,
              onSelected: (bool value) {},
              onDeleted: () {},
            ),
            const SizedBox(height: 16),
            FilterChip.elevated(
              avatar: const Icon(Icons.favorite_rounded),
              label: const Text('FilterChip'),
              onSelected: (bool value) {},
              onDeleted: () {},
            ),
          ],
        ),
      ),
    );
  }
}
```

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### Before

Not possible to add delete button

### After 
![Screenshot 2023-10-16 at 17 56 51](https://github.com/flutter/flutter/assets/48603081/ad751ef9-c2bc-4184-ae5f-4d1017eff664)